Wish you could finally say what you really want in your sex life ...

Without feeling awkward, uncomfortable, silenced by shame, or scared of judgment and rejection?

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3 Ways to Say What You Want in Your Sex Life

Discover how to say what you want without feeling awkward or scared and start creating the satisfying sex life that you want.

meet leanne

And discover more about sexual communication, my story about saying what I wanted in my sex life and how I can help you, too.

The most common struggle I've heard through many recent conversations with people is that what's going on in their sex life in reality is w-a-a-a-y different than what they really want inside their own heads.

The difference is usually because of a discrepancy in sexual desires or a mismatch in libido compared to a partner. In other words ... sexual incompatibility. And often, the reason for the difference (actually ... conflict is a better word because it touches on the emotions involved) is ...

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what I do

I work with women who feel awkward and scared talking to their partners about sex. I help them clarify what they want and comfortably express that so they can have the kind of sex they don't want to avoid.

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what others say

I had so many unresolved feelings and limiting beliefs ...

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"I don't talk about my sex life with anyone except for you and my husband. But you have this way of just making me feel not judged ... making me feel safe and like it's okay. And when I do the hamster wheel thing and go back to my old story, you remind me and put me back on track. The time we spent together was truly incredibly healing for me and soooo needed. Up until then, I had so many unresolved feelings and limiting beliefs. I will FOREVER hold you in my heart as someone who has truly changed my life. That is saying so much because I searched high and low for someone that could walk me through those difficult feelings. So thank you!'“

— Katy Suik, Transformational Coach

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resources

Check out these blog posts to support you in depth with sexual confidence, sexual desire discrepancy and shifting shame around sex.

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SEXUAL DESIRE DISCREPANCY

In this post, I share what sexual desire is, what sexual desire discrepancy is, what causes mismatched libido, the effects of a discrepancy and what you can do about it.

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SEXUAL CONFIDENCE 101

In this post, I share what sexual confidence is, what's really true about sexual confidence and why it's something that you may want to experience.

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